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John Plas's avatar

Dear Mary, it’s quite of feat of strength and endurance to survive what you’ve been through. It’s also a sign of strength in your ability to succinctly articulate the journey you’ve been on. Addressing your former self is a transformative approach of healing and acceptance. Going through major stem cell replacement is effectively replacing one’s former self, albeit a very unhealthy self. You are now a newer you, a stronger you and a very grateful you. I’m honoured to have you in my life. You’re a rock of resilience. I love Jackie’s early stance .. “Please stop dying”. That takes immense strength and love to focus you on the path ahead of you. Keep living! Love you, John

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Mary Rose's avatar

Precious John. You nailed the "new, stronger, very grateful" part. I've come to a beautiful place where I feel all the love in the world, especially what buzzes around and from within me all the time. I walked to death's door and came away with extraordinary gifts. In terms of endurance, I will always maintain that Jackie trod the rougher road. I just had to hang on and ride it out. She did all the hard work that made it possible. Caregivers are exceptional❣️

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Susan Scot Hennings's avatar

Beautifully-written letter to self and hard-earned wisdom and insights. A gift to your precious self and one you graciously share with us. Thank you. <3 I read each of your updates or postings with admiration, compassion, and happy tears. I love the term "passion project" and will pass that on. Hugs to you both as you continue the story, the work/journey ahead, and the ongoing discovery of joy. I have no doubt "you've got this!" Sparkles and love.

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Mary Rose's avatar

Susan, your persistent support and love is a treasured gift. Thank you, dear person.

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Gfrtechnologies Inc.'s avatar

Tons of wisdom..hard, earned wisdom in the letter. I love AFOG…I will use that! See you both in a few weeks!

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Mary Rose's avatar

Wonderful Arlene. Thank you for this. I'm not surprised that AFOG resonates with you. 😉 I'm delighted our children made us family. Time to celebrate!

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Arvada Darnell's avatar

This is such a beautiful letter to your former Self, Rosie. Thank you for sharing. Love you!

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Annette Ruitenbeek's avatar

beautiful - and now perhaps it is time for a brand new chapter informed by what has come before and borne by wings of renewal and dreams yet to be fulfilled ✨

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